Does she like me: The best places to go on first dates and why

The best places to take new dates is all about making the other person feel comfortable. With that said you can keep the clown suit at home and keep things super laid-back and real. The reason for this is well in theory people mirror their date places, meaning if your date place is giving off a nice vibe then she will more than likely give a nice vibe back by being cool and mirroring the tone you set, you are the man, you set the mood by picking a good date spot.

Every date spot projects your intentions! Meaning a women will be able to smell right through your cheap cologne at the club in 0.6 seconds and will be running for the door quick!

If you bring her to your boys house to play video games, that is clearly going to bore her and it will project (heres that word again) a friend vibe, you dont want that! Postpone guys night for next weekend, this ones for you and her!

How is the tone set? Its all about picking the right place for the date, if you can really get this right you will turn "date" into many more "dates", sex, babies and what have you ;).

First thing to remember about setting the tone is absolutely no bars or clubs, remember you want to get to know your date, you want to figure out if this broad is worth taking out again. How are you going to know this if you got dudes and fat chicks rubbing against your date and yourself? Its just not practical, its cheap and its not showing much to the lucky lady. Its promoting trash and that you dont give a damn about communicating with her. Remember women get used alot, they are smart human beings, if she sees a trap being set by your pathetic and cheesy/cliche date ideas she will suddenly "have to go" and you wont ever see her again. = Fail. We want to WIN.

You have to be firm but at the same time project that you aren't trying to get a one night stand from her like i said above this is done (if you are *slap*, thats alright too but make sure you dont come off to strong with that approach). The way you come off more casual is to take a breath and act cool, say "hey lets get coffee at starbucks!"..This projects sophistication and also shows your potential girlfriend that you dont want to get in her pants too quickly. Plus coffee places are always more quiet and like i said earlier you will be able to hear your date and hear all the things you will need to remember for future encounters. So use starbucks or your local coffee brew as a guide, do you get the idea? its not rocket science and once you can master the first dating place its all EZ.

Another reason why you want to pick a laid back place is also because this could potentially be your first time seeing eachother, what would be good about a dark place with super loud music? Your senses will be overwhelmed and so will your date.

Look at it like an investment, Instead of investing money your investing time (and sometimes a little upfront capital cheap ass) :). Other dating place no no's is movies, shows, carnivals etc. You want a place to promote communication not sitting because you could do that by yourself and its awhole lot cheaper. :)

Bonus tip: sometimes women will want to pay on the first date, if this is the case dont deny it but always still pull out your wallet like you want to pay or you atleast tried. The reason why women like to pay is because it puts the pressure off the date and makes it less serious, if you pay and buy her all sorts of things she will think your trying to bribe her and thats the last thing you want to project on a first date place. Just totally go with it, you now know what kind of places to pick on a first date and why, so why not go and ask that hunny out tonight?! Hell, you may even get a free meal out of it, i have before!

In the next article i will give you my best tips on how to behave like a champ on your first date, a way that will very likely get you more dates enhancing your chances of getting laid and snagging yourself a new girlfriend, Stay tunned!

Be real yall - Trizz

Does she like me: Should I pay for the first date?

Okay lets get down to it, so your thinking about taking out your beloved crush and now you have came up with the brilliant idea of going on a first date. Good work if you have made it to this level, this is an important move as long as you play your cards right.

To answer the question "should I pay on the first date?" Id say its all about using your own judgement. The answer is yours and its unique everyime. How do you use your own judgement, well you add up the facts and decide what the best move is in the current situation.

Decide what you want with this relationship. Is it for a one-night stand? Is it for the longterm or the sticky short term? By answering these questions you can weigh out your initial investment.

Alot of guys will tell you "oh man dont pay for the first date!" and dont open doors for her and be a jerk. In all honesty that is a short term dead end deal, most of the time guys dishing out this type of advice dont have anyone so they are trying to sabotage you too.

Use your own judgement, who cares what steve or bob thinks, steve and bob aren't you.
Be smart and read what she wants from you. Is she worth buying a meal for? Will the putt putt after dinner be worth it? Id say again figure out your intension for the date and everything else will fall into place.

Relationships are like jobs, you spend hours devoting time to it and soon it pays off in other words you spend quality time with your girlfriend and that investment of devoting your time will nourish your relationship and keep it afloat.

Now just because you pay for her food and miniature golf doesn't mean your a chump or a loser, it actually shows class. Especially if you dont rub it in her face that you did these things, just act like it aint nothing. If you only have five dollars get creative she will love you for that. Be real and let her know that you only have five dollars and you want her input on how to spend it. Its bonding time! THat sounds like an adventure to me!

So to finally answer the question of "should I pay for the first date?" add up all the above and then make your choice. You cant go wrong with the good old gut instinct! Its all about what you want, you get what you give.

In the next article I will explain the best places to go on dates and why :)!

be real yall -trizz