Appearing desperate is in no way attractive and since we want to appear that we have a life other than just calling girls numbers we get from clubs we wait it out. Waiting it out is important because it gets the target (the girl) thinking about you and wondering if you are going to call her. This build anticipation and this is very attracting to girls. This is an introduction to "playing hard to get" which i will go a lot further in detail in later articles but first lets digest the basic principle.
Say that you went to a bar saw a cute girl, got her number and an hour later you called her..Its too quick and too desperate so when I say wait it out really wait it out. Ill explain why below.
Doing this also creates mystery and like I said above it makes you look unavailable(cool,awesome, you have a life etc). Think about if a girl asked you for your number and she didn't call you right away, you would be wondering and waiting like a little puppy for someone to call you. This is what you want the girl to do.
Okay so now that you have the basic idea down, ill explain what time frame is right. but first im going to explain your goals of calling back in the first place.
You are calling her because you want to hang out with her and get to know her better and eventually go on a date. A good time frame in which to wait out is 2 days nothing more nothing less and don't wuss up and not call her at all, remember the goal here is get the experience of calling and you wont get that if you wuss out. You owe it to her after 2 days of solid waiting to call her so do it!
Additional phone rules to use during the phone call:
- When she asks you "whats up?", don't ever say nothing. This is extremely boring and again it makes you look like you have nothing better to do. If you aren't doing anything interesting and you are in fact bored by any means make something up! lol This makes it a lot more entertaining to the listener plus the attraction meter goes higher!
- Keep conversation short and straight to the point. Your main goal is to get another date worked out so you can talk in person and then go from there.
- Be the one to end the conversation first after around 5-10 minutes find a nice closing spot that either gets you a date or tell her you will call her later.
- Leaving messages is also a last resort because like I said above you want to make her think you have better things to do than waste your precious time leaving messages but if you absolutely have to make it short and don't ramble on and on. Make sure you have a point to calling and let her know what your point is!
You see the whole reason to do all this is to stand out and enhance your image so you appear more attractive busy and cool to the girl. If you follow this lesson i guarantee you will have some success in it and she will be loving it. Heck you might even realize some of your negative patterns you used in your past relationships and how doing what you did ended up failing on you. Its a little different to grasp your head around this but once you get results you will be thanking me. So do it, do it, do it till its automatic and soon you wont even have to think about it. You will seem interesting and exclusive and that's what girls are after. Make her work for it :)
As you can see im rolling into more advance tips, there will be more on playing hard to get later. Get out there and practice what you learned!
-trizz
Coming soon: Can ugly guys get hot girls?
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