Ugly guys cant get hot girls but ugly guys with certain attitudes and edge can and can out succeed anyone! So if you feel that you are in that oh so lovely "ugly" bracket, read read read.
Remember what I said in past articles, looks are only a small fraction of the picture to girls. Thank god if not the human race could not survive lol! With that said, looks don't matter all that much. You just need an interesting style, filled with confidence, cockiness and sweetness.
Go to the mall and walk around for 5 minutes, i guarantee you, you will find an odd looking couple where the guy looks ugly but the girl looks really hot. This is everywhere! It makes you wonder "What the hell am I doing wrong!" Some of those guys you would think paid the girls to hang out with them, or they bought some kind of magical pill that makes him get anyone he wants! But this is not the case he has something else and its not something you can buy its something that can be learned.
Well anyways when you see that odd couple what do you notice the guy has? Maybe good style maybe something distinct about him, he may be tall, short, has really big hair, is built etc. Those are the external things you will notice. So chances are he also has a good personality and this is what we want to focus on.
Good personality doesn't mean you have to a nice guy, in fact you should only focus on using an effective personality edge that makes you appear different kind of like something that stands out.
See those ugly guys you see with hot girls walking around in the mall have something really good on the inside and that is their personality. Personality is what sets you apart from the good looking guys and gets you dating the hot girls.
Now let me explain some personality traits you need to adopt to your personality:
Confidence is one of the most important things when it comes to getting a girlfriend etc. If you don't have any confidence which most of you guys may not(since you are here :)) you need to fake it till you make it. Meaning fake your confidence until you start getting the idea.
A good way to work on your confidence with women is start flirting with ugly girls. Flirting with ugly girls will let you experiment with ease, build up good techniques than move on to the hotties. Its best to do this because it gets used to whole idea and once you have the idea down there is no stopping you. You will realize when you have confidence everything comes easy even rejection. When you have confidence you can do whatever you want and not let fear control you.
Cockiness, that's right you need to be (a little) cocky. I say this because cockiness makes things interesting and competitive. Its challenging to the women and it keeps them hooked on to you.
Now being sweet within confident and cocky brings it all together, its the glue that holds it all as one. I say this because without a little bit of sweetie in you, you would be seen as a conceded ugly ass and that's not what we want. Being sweet completes the image because deep down you have to have a sweet spot for the women to want to get emotional with you. Being sweet is what wins there heart. Its the cherry on top. So focus on backing up everything you do by pure sweetness. Being sweet makes the girls know that you aren't a dick and you in fact do have a heart for them. Im going to go in detail with a certain game but for now focus on those 3 things!
Some bonus tips: Now that you got confidence, cockiness and sweetness down you need to find a physical edge to go along with it to attract the ladies. First you need to target what the ladies you like, like. What is attracting to the type of women you like? You need to know what the girls you are attracted to go after. Do you like girls that have tattoos? Then maybe you should show off some of your tattoo's. If the ladies you like are into sports dress like that. The most effective outside edge though is going to be coming from what you really like, this is going to make the easiest transition because it doesn't take much work lol. You are what you are but at the same time that may not attract the girls you want.
Physical attraction is like a billboard, you promote what you are about by how you dress and look. So focus on what will represent you as something datable and not a joke. You don't want girls to disrespect you, you want them to respect your authority as a guy. So act in such a manner that will get you respect. To do this you must give respect when necessary.
Don't think of these character traits as changes that need to be made but more as enhancements to what you already have.
Having some physical traits that are attracting will make it a little easier at first im not going to lie but once the girl gets to know you, your looks aren't going to do the relationship work, your personality is. So do as much as you can to adopt these personality traits. Work on your personality and the hot girls will fall in place for you with ease! Can ugly guys get hot girls, most certainly!
Coming soon: Advanced mini lesson #3 How to take your friends girlfriend
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