Does she like me Advanced mini lesson #3 How to take your friends girlfriend

Now I know its nothing personal, your friend has a super hot girlfriend and you want her. Infact you want her so bad that you dont really care about loosing your friend to get her. Where would you even start? Well first I want to introduce you to a term called "The Cock Block". Now I know it sounds silly but ill explain. Cock block basically means that you are going to do something specific to block another male(your friend) from getting what you have your eyes set on which means taking his girlfriend :).

The basics of cock blocking is simple you need to exploit your friends weakness in a way that makes his girlfriend look down on him and at the same time makes you look like a more eligable bachealor for her love :). Now I will tell you this method works better with new relationships, this is because they dont have much of a foundation and they are more suseptable of weaknesses. I would only try this method if you seriously are ready to take your friends girlfriend, if not dont try this.

One of the best ways to use cock block is to start talking to your friends girlfriend. You must have some sort of relationship with her so you can start your cock blocking games. Now traditionaly a cock block is acted out when your friend is trying to flirt with a girl in a club and you walk up to them and say "hey dude your ex wife said your kids need child support!". Get it? Its a way that makes the girl flee away but in our case its a bit different, we are using cock block technique to make your friends girlfriend fall for you. Its based on the same principles though so dont worry.

There is a pyshcology to doing this, a certain method must be made in order to be successful. Once you've established a relationship with talking to her when her bf isn't around you are on your way to start the fun. If you are pretty tight she may already trust you enough to tell her problems to you. Let me tell you, this is a golden oppurtunity not because she is telling you alot of winny stuff but the fact that she is pretty much volunteering information that lets you know they have a weakness.

For example she calls you up one night and lets you know that she got into a fight with your friend and yadda yadda. When this happens your duties are to always agree with her and be comforting(but heres where you sneak in) encourage her that things shouldn't be like that and that he is being stupid. Then during conversations slowly sneak in little things here and there that makes you look like a better guy than him. If she complains that he is cheap, you say "Yeah he is a cheapskate, I would totally take you out". The point of all this is to show her that you are a more eligable guy than your friend and over time this can and will work! Its all about persistance!

Now hopefully with all their fights they have been going through lately, encourage her to take a break from her bf(your soon to be exfriend). The reason you want to encourage her to take a break is so you can confort her and you guys can hang out, which really means you can gain experience with her and she will fall for you. Now in order to not seem to obvious with your intentions, make sure you dont move too fast on her. This is key! If you do move to fast she will add up your moves and call your bluff! You dont want her to catch on to your motives, so be subtle yet on a mission.

Have a goal and slowly get to that goal. As they are on the break hang out with her, take her places and let her know that its just a friends thing..Do this until you get a hint from her that she has some interest's in you. Again this is just like what I said above you want things to seem like they are her decisions but really we know your in control. So you want her to admit or show you in some physical way that she likes you. Once you get that sign you can slowly persue it and show her how great of a boyfriend you can be. By this time she will forget about her ex and you will be out a friend but in with the girl you wanted!

Here is a quick outline to understand what your moves to take your friends girlfriend:

• Master the cockblock, while hanging with her and your friend make sure you make yourself desirable and stand out in a good way but not too cocky etc
• Start building up a friendship with your friends girlfriend
• Over time you will build up trust with her and she will soon come to you with her problems
• From there you move in for the kill
• You make yourself more desirable and agree with her point of veiws on complaits she has etc, this will make her feel like you guys are the same and that you have a connection
• Compliment her, give her unique compliments like I convered in past articles(you can find them in the archives)
• Make her feel special and do exactly what your friend doesn't do or give her, this will make you look like the better guy and she will rather be with you
• Stay subtle and wait for her to give you a sign that she likes you, do not make the first move until you know that sign. If you need help figuring out that look at my body language article so you can pick up on those secret things girls do when they like you.
• It is important to let her show you she likes you first because it makes things way less akward in the end with her and with your friend. If you made the first move and she rejected you, she could easily tell her bf and you would be screwed. We dont want this, be patients, be the better guy and you will shine as you make out with your friends girlfriend. :)

This also works better when you aren't too tight with your friend either, this isn't something you should attempt with one of your best friends because thats not worth messing up. When I say friend I mean someone you know of and atleast hangout with now and then but you deffinetly need to be friends with him in order to build a friendship with his girlfriend.

Other tips you can use that successfully works:

1. Talk to her online, this can be less intimidating and is an easy way to start if you are shy
2. Get her cell number, for girls to build trust you must spend time with them which means you can text her alittle every other day with something like "how are you doing" dont ever complain or talk about yourself too much. With time and consistency you can win a girl over easy.
3. Make sure you put effort into bashing her boyfriend and let her know that you are on her side.
4. Most likely if you become her boyfriend your friend will hate you and even might want to fight you, but this is expected. Brush it off and know that its worth it, you can show the girl a better time and you will treat her better. You are the better guy and she deserves the best!